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When you’re dating someone new, it can often be challenging to figure out whether this person is truly into you or not.

After all, she may be trying to play it cool and not totally reveal how she feels about you, and you may be left wondering if your budding relationship has the potential to turn into something more significant and long-lasting. Fortunately, by focusing more intently on both her actions and her words, you can actually determine her true intent.

With this in mind, there are the four clear signs that can help you recognize if she’s falling for you or if things are falling flat.

“She may be trying to play it cool and not totally reveal how she feels about you, and you may be left wondering if your budding relationship has the potential to turn into something more significant and long-lasting. But there are the four clear signs that can help you recognize if she’s falling for you or if things are falling flat.”

  1. She recalls details of your conversations. One of the clear signs that she’s falling for you is that she remembers the particulars of your talks and discussions together. For example, if she happens to recall that you dislike cucumbers even though you only mentioned it once in passing, this is a clear example that she’s truly listening to you and values what you have to say. In a word, when she cares about the specifics of your conversations and uses this information as an opportunity to get to know you better, you can know for sure that she’s falling for you.
  2. She goes out of her way to make you happy. Another tell-tale indicator that she’s falling for you is that she practices random acts of kindness toward you. However, these actions are in reality not random at all, as they’re clear evidence that you’re on her mind and that she wants to see you smile. For instance, if she picks up your favorite candy on her way over to your place, surprises you with tickets to a concert, and basically goes out of her way to make your life easier, this is an easy way to tell that she’s falling for you.
  3. She opens up to you. An additional sign that she’s falling for you is that she’s forthright and honest with you. Specifically, when she feels comfortable enough to tell you about her past, reveals personal thoughts and emotions, and is completely candid and open with you, her words speak volumes about her feelings for you. In fact, when she can truly be herself around you and feels a strong sense of trust, you can trust in the fact that she’s falling for you.
  4. She introduces you to the people closest to her. If you’re wondering if she’s falling for you, another tell-tale sign is that she wants you to meet her friends and family. To that end, when she introduces you to her crew and inner-circle, this is because she finds you significant enough to meet the other significant people in her life. In other words, if she wasn’t serious about you and/or didn’t see a future with you, then meeting her friends and family wouldn’t be in your future.
About the Author

Stacey Laura Lloyd is an award-winning dating, relationships, and wellness writer and is the Dating Expert for About.com. Her work has been praised in Library Journal and Publishers Weekly and has also been featured on The Doctors. She’s a graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and is the author of two books, including Is Your Job Making You Fat? How to Lose the Office 15…and More!

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